Now on with the show:

1.   Mondo and monogamy-Mondo has practiced monogamy in many forms: emotional, sexual, and etc.  He has never cheated and is not going to when practicing.  Mondo keeps his word.

2.   Mondo and monogamy today-Mondo is not practicing monogamy today in any form.  His affections are polymorphous and he for this time is celibate.

Monogamy-this social dynamic only works for some and may work in a serial fashion most effectively.  Mondo has mostly been serially monogamous having had well over twenty of those relationships in his life.  Mondo has now found that monogamy works primarily as a contract for women to feel safe and secure and for men to get lazy and eventually bored.

Men usually have too much fear to practice polygyny and polyamory.  We have gotten socialized to do otherwise even though it seems very contrary.  Mondo had the best times when he lived the polyamorous, promiscuous lifestyle.  He got to fuck many, many women and did not long for the false securities of monogamy.  He did not have to worry about explaining himself(he doesn’t today).  He did not suffer the insecurities that the average chump does.

Now that Mondo has gotten older he doesn’t have anxieties about not having a monogamous, “romantic” relationship even though he has consistent interaction with some women that he loves very passionately and deeply.  He no longer worries or suffers from the longing anxieties.  He just loves them and given the opportunity he will fuck them with love and passion like no other.  He does not care that he does not have any one of them right now. 

We do not claim to be free of jealousy, bitterness, anger, or hate.  We simply accept these emotional conditions as part of our humanity and strive not to act on them in ways that would endanger our lifestyle and security.  We continue to find that all the higher purpose rhetoric winds up more transcendentalist bullshit.  It wastes energy and ignores reality except from useful egalitarian POVs that help us attain our goals individually and in select groupings.

For the meantime, Mondo does not search for liaisons.  Mondo endeavors to have fun and playfulness and may or may not find himself ejaculating into new vaginal playgrounds. 

Mondo loves women and dislikes stupidity-especially in himself and women.  Emotional attachment and upset can cause us to sink into stupid actions and thinking particularly in the man and woman interaction.

Recently, we got some stupid comments regarding our involvement with and comments about J Carlisle on this blog from men that no doubt have cases of terminal wussiness. There occurs no chivalry in defending idiots. Women express idiocy as much as men.  One of our favorite women friends says that women are stupid and that she as a rule doesn't like them-we add here that men have their own stupidities and may be equally as useless. 

Mondo realizes that in this endless ocean there remain many fish and many opportunities and that he has great value to himself and others not of the latterly ilk. 

To this end we have committed to developing total self love and PRESENCE that will expand to the end of our incarnation in this sea of exstasis.