Each of us has all or most of the tools we need to make ourselves happy in almost any moment.
Even in the face of death some have faced it happily with a smile.
We may have opportunities to cultivate happiness from tools gathered in life experiences and trainings.
The ruse comes in believing we actually exist and have a posited being. We take action. Our bodies and the chemistry which makes our cells, organs, tissues and bodily systems act and have a constant motion. We move on a moving object in a moving system which has a connected part to all other moving systems we perceive. In some great senses of all of this we realize our significance and insignificance. We sometimes get glimpses of newly – in our perception as individuals – synthesized reality tunnels and this spurs something commonly called imagination, which consequently seems to make new reality tunnels or fantasies of possible realities we might experience.
The delusion comes in the self-deprecation coming from confusing identity with its progenitor – PURPOSE.
We’ve had enough of getting told our existence has some ulterior meaning other than living life to its fullest in the moment. Some seem to have so much concern in a never proven afterlife they miss out on many of life’s pleasurable and rewarding experiences. Their prayers to a mythical deity or deities only find an answer in cause and effect and random occurrences, yet the satisfaction it brings those praying and sometimes those who know they have gotten prayed for seems to fuel their erroneous beliefs as such.
By the time most individuals reach the age of 35 their actions and responses are 95% determined in the subconscious. Thus we act out of ingrained sets of beliefs, thinking, feelings, and experiences from our past. To adapt and change and find greater strategies we may have to break out of these programmed actions. First we will have to sensually experience occurrences. Since most of our memories are changed everytime we remember them, purposely living in the moment and having great awareness of the stimuli coming into us with a more objective perception trained to immediately filter out the canned responses of the nostalgic identity many of us believe actually exists as a solid form intransigent, despite widespread information to the contrary.
As we train ourselves to recognize our programmed responses we can gain a healthy skepticism about the world we live in and the judgements our minds give us whilst actually perceiving an event.
As we have done this, we’ve noticed less repetitive behaviors. We actually got overly familiar with eras and their genre. Defining and living in Purpose gives a clearly shaped identity with beliefs and values generating behaviors and creating a beneficial environment. My purpose got elucidated and I create power and pleasure, very simply so living my live in the chunked up versions of those terms…Power does not mean over others. It encompasses wealth and health and emotional intelligence and connecting meaningfully with others.
We remind ourselves to aspire to and achieve excellence while discarding perfectionism and perfectionists.
We will not take judgements and criticisms personally as they come from others and not ourselves. We will not assume anyone to have our same set of beliefs and values. We will focus and do our best in as many areas as possible, keeping track of efforts and results.